Bit of a long (some may say boring) read.BartonRaz wrote: Sun Mar 23, 2025 7:42 pm However I can also think of a large number of people I know personally, not to mention faces I can recall of people I don't personally know, that have walked away from the Club for one reason or another and no longer attend matches. I know people move on, life moves on, but you can probably count on one hand the amount of past board members at this Football Club who still attend matches and I personally find that incredibly sad.
Speaking from my own personal point of view, since the whole "Maxwell Saga" and then subsequent Nunn disaster spell, just left me feeling complete apathy towards attending games and the club in general.
The last game I went to was Needham away Feb 2023. It was a dire game and summed up the state of the club at that time and confirmed in my own mind that making the 160* mile round trip to watch games from time to time just wasn't really worth it. To watch a group of players who weren't really trying, and knew they wouldn't be there come the end of the season.
Since the subsequent relegation and with a fixture list now including teams like Coventry Sphinx, Loughborough Students and Hinckley LRFC, it just doesn't make for an appealing Saturday afternoon entertainment.
I want the club to do well and I think the current people in charge have done a fantastic job in steadying the ship. Certainly looks like that looking in from afar.
However the very nature of the league the club is currently in, the constant chopping and changing/ revolving door of players through out the season and the overall unappealing list of fixtures and grounds to go to, it just doesn't feel it gives floating/ "old" fans something to reinvest in.
When the club was climbing the ladder the first time, it was exciting, players and fans were engaged and united behind a new project. 800+ coming to games at the D&D. This time around it feels like the prospect of reaching the Central League again is miles away. Decent players aren't drawn into the club by R&D name anymore. Good players at this level will play it front of 1 man and his dog for the money rather than AFCR&D the 350* fans each week.
I tip my hat to those that still go week in week out. They are the true hardcore fans. However for me personally, I look back at 2001-2023 years spent watching R&D and AFCR&D with a sense of nostalgia. I had some fantastic days watching the old and new clubs.
Perhaps if I was still based more locally and didn't have other family responsibilities and hobbies etc, then I may still be attending. The fact that I choose to prioritize different things on a Saturday without really missing going to watch AFCR&D is a position I didn't think I'd ever be in. I'd suggest though that I'm one of many, given the general slide in attendances from 2011/12 up to now. That includes a lot of "household" faces too.
Of course I wish the club all the success going forward and I'll always keeps tabs from afar. For as long as it's playing at Hayden Road and getting through 25-30* different players a season, I honestly can't see things changing too drastically in the near future. It will just keep treading water and playing at the level it's currently at. Given that it's run on a shoe string budget and entirely by hard working volunteers, that's no mean fit though!